Dear Kim,
Today would've been your 48th birthday. Almost six years have gone by since you died, and many people still miss you every day. It's still very, very hard for a lot of us.
Some people like to say that everything happens for a reason. Well, they will never convince me, even if they had a million years, that there is any good reason for you to be gone. It's not right, it's not okay, and I still can't accept it.
I know that you would want all of us to be happy and to be not just surviving, but thriving. We want to be able to do this, but many of us are still having a lot of trouble doing so. Some of us have experienced multiple important losses, and some of us were just very close to you. It's hard for everyone in different ways.
The good news is that your son Ethan seems to be doing better. We try our best to help him and make things as good as possible for him. I believe that you can see for yourself that he is coping the best that he can.
I know this isn't eloquent. I've had a hard time lately. I just didn't want to forget your birthday.
We all miss you and love you. Crying here without you.
Chris
A few years ago I tried to click this YouTube video link, but the video wouldn't play (on our computer, anyway). It's just a few seconds long, but now it works. I just watched it for the first time yesterday. Click on the title below if you want to see it.
Kim Saxe speaks at the WNPA hosted Midwest Regional Lyme Conference in Madison, WI
